Been a while...

So!! Its been a while since I've made a posting!

Things have been quite difficult for me lately and so I've been pretty much disconnected from everything and I'm now just managing to be able to think about starting to get back on track...

In December i had an infection that was my worst one i had ever had, i was in hospital for a few days as i had 2 episodes of coughing up blood for the first time ever and then i continued on home IVs which i had already started previous to going into hospital. It seemed like i got better, some things picked up i started to get a little bit of energy back and some of my appetite. Bits and pieces like that which indicate to us CFers that generally something is starting to go right for a change and that were going to start getting better.

I went back to the gym, i went back to Uni, i started to put my "life" shoes back on again. I think that's where i went wrong, i went back into things too quickly after being so unwell and just didn't give myself time to rest properly. Hindsight's a bitch sometimes!

So i ended up getting ill again, i had the same feelings as in December, things started to show they were in decline again, my energy disappeared, my appetite diminished. I got very low again and spent a lot of time either slouched on the sofa or throwing up in the bathroom. Not impressive.

So after trying to go it alone again 'coz I'm stubborn, i called the hospital and told them everything that had been happening. I don't think they were impressed i had waited so long to ring them, but they know I'm a stubborn cow sometimes. They put me on the priority list for a bed and within 2 days i was in hospital and being pumped full of lovely IVs, paracetamol, ibuprofen. Luckily i didn't have any bleeds this time, but i think that was because of a few factors, namely that my chest had dried up like a desert but i could feel that it was full of it, as i was wheezing like mad for the first time in years! Not even my inhaler would relive it.
I was hitting temps of around 40 and i had god knows how many blood cultures done when in hospital, i had 3 ECGs, 2 in one day as my heart was beating so fast it was really uncomfortable sometimes. I had to stop moving around so much and just rest on nurses orders to help try and settle my heart rate and also to get my pulse rate down as well. I went on oxygen again to being my sats up and had my obs done every hour for the first 2 days i was in there. Needless to say my mood from total lack of sleep was not pretty.

Mum came down on the first weekend i was in there and i argued with the nurse about being allowed to go down into town for a little bit and get some real fresh air and real edible food for lunch! I think she thought i was going to escape home, but there was no way i could look after myself while mum was at work. So begrudgingly i did admit to myself that i was in the best place, even if the food did look like the cat had coughed it up sometimes! Thank god for the £6 i spent on my massive bag of pick n mix :p

Eventually i won the argument with the nurse and she let me go, but made it clear she wasn't happy about it. I think what won it was that she said she has to ring the on call Dr to see if i can go out and i said that even if they said no, i would still go out anyway!
So i had breakfast - a lovely fry up, and a KFC for lunch! It had to have been the best day i had had for a few. Although it totally knackered me out after i got back to my room, i was so pleased i had managed better walking and was thankful for the change of scene and fresh air. Sometimes i don't think some nurses get that its depressing after a while being on your own, looking at the same four walls alllll the time!

Another reason i hate being in hospital is that it is always a clear reminder of how alone i actually am and feel right now. I have no friends who come to visit me, and next to no family come to visit me. I have no get well cards sent to me from friends and family, i have no Internet so feel totally disconnected.
Thankfully i have my amazing mum and my best friend Emily. Although my mum can only get to visit me on Saturdays, its the best ever when i see her! It doesn't matter that I'm pretty much always on the phone to her when in there (thanks Orange for magic numbers and my free mins :p ) seeing her is totally different as i can actually get that much needed hug and get to slap a real smile on my face!! :D I know that if it wasn't for work, and the extortionate fees for public transport she would come and see me everyday. I just hope she knows that i do fully understand that.

My best friend would come and visit me i know that, but at the moment shes on her Uni placement in France and so obviously cant, which i know pisses her off as she knows that no other friends bother to visit me. They have their excuses of not liking hospitals, or that they are too busy, then i see on facebook they are moaning they are bored. Yeah cheers for that guys.
My family are the worst. They don't understand CF and the extent of the damage it does to someone, physically, emotionally and mentally. Not just to the person who has to suffer with it, but their parent(s) and sibling(s) as well. My aunt totally pissed my mum off. We were trying to arrange transport for me to be able to be discharged on home IVs. Taking all the meds which is usually two large carrier bags, a huge sharps bin with all the syringes, needles etc inside and my stuff i took into hospital is not ideal to take on a train journey home! So we asked my Aunty if she could pick me up and take me home. She said she couldn't do it, fair enough at least we tried. I then saw the next day on facebook, when i was being discharged that she was in Bristol, down in the town not a 20min walk from the hospital i was in!! Shopping. Of all things, for the birthday party of my other Aunty that we hadn't been told about or invited to. Granted its more than likely we couldn't have gone but it would have been nice being family members to have gotten an invite! Is that selfish of me to think that??

As i wasn't being discharged until about 5pm she could have gotten in her shopping day and then come and collected me. She has a large car so its not like shopping bags would have taken up room. It really angered my mum, more because my aunt is always saying if theres anything she can do to help let her know. Yet every time we ask she always says no, cant do it. Theres always some excuse which isn't always true. So were not bothering to ask her anymore, for anything.
It pissed me off as well, but it upset me as well as it felt like she was saying that she doesn't care about her niece or her sister (my mum) enough to just do this small thing for them that would help them out hugely. Yet she goes to see my cousin right around the corner from me who has cancer whenever she can! I think its because she doesn't understand CF and doesn't see or get how bad it is/can get for me. I don't think she gets that it can kill me, just as much as cancer can kill people. Cancer everyone understands, you can see the devastating affects of that horrid disease. You cant see the devastating affects of CF. People think naively that as the person is up and walking around themselves that theres nothing wrong with them.

I had my annual review yesterday, which didnt show up no surprises really as i had already been spending so long at the hospital. Basically the annual review showed that im worse than last year and still struggling.
Im having my PEG put in on the 29th March and ill go in a few days before that for some IVs again to make sure my lungs are in as good a condition they can be for dealing with an anesthetic, even if it is a local one and sedation. Then for a few days afterwards ill be trained how to do home feeding via my new tube and then be allowed to go home again. I swear they should make me a permanent bed for me there lately :|

Hopefully that will gain me the weight i need to battle these infections i keep getting. If i can have a better summer than last year health wise itll be a start!

Anyway i think this post is long enough now!
Hope peoples are well!!